夢想與現實的差距－Shermy=Share with Me 六寶媽日誌

我在畫石頭的時候並非每一次都能畫的完美。像照片裡的這兩顆。我本來是要畫像目錄中一模一樣的圖形，可是卻畫成這樣。是，我很失望，也很不開心。在人生中，當期望在現實中落空時，有多少次我們經歷一樣的失落？你又是怎麼處理這份情緒的呢？

彩繪石頭讓我學到的其中一件事情就是，不要害怕。繪畫本身就是需要冒著不合期望的風險的，一個錯誤就能輕易地破壞整體繪畫的平衡感。克服恐懼去做下一步絕對需要極大的勇氣。在生命中也是一樣。有時候我們會猶豫走下一步或嘗試不同的東西。

而我們每一個人都握著生命彩筆，繪畫出自己的生命藝術。但是到了需要為自己的半成品換筆、換色彩或色調的時候，我們猶豫了，就此停住了。我們不敢冒險，腦袋中充滿著太多的”可是”。但，就放手去做吧！如果行不通，那就去做修飾吧！

像這兩顆石頭，它們不完美，但我努力修到我滿意為止。它不符合我的期望，但它出自我手，有屬於他們的特別。我欣然接受它們的樣子，而我也衷心感謝它們讓我上了寶貴的一課。

就放膽地畫吧！不要害怕！努力去面對來自於夢想與現實差距的挫折感，這樣你才有機會去修飾、並從中成長。不要讓你的恐懼阻擋了你從平凡到不平凡的人生繪畫。

The Gap Between the Dreams and Reality

I'm not always perfect on every rock that I painted. Like these two. I was tend to draw exactly the same thing as shown in the catalogue, but ended up like these. Yes, I feel upset. I’m not happy with what I’ve done. How many times in life we feel the same when our expectation fails in reality? How do you deal with it?

One thing that I learn from rocks painting is that, don’t be scared. Painting is a thing that you need to take the risk of ruin your expectation. One mistake can easily break the whole balance of the art piece. It definitely needs courage to overcome your fears and just do it. It’s the same thing in life. Sometimes we hesitate to move on or try something different.

We all holding the life’s big paint brush doing our life art works, but when it comes to the time of changing the paint brush, colour, or the tone for your work piece, we hesitate and stop. We dare not take the risk. Too much “what if” occupied your whole mind. I’ll say, just let go and DO it. If it didn’t work out right, then, FIX it!

Like these two rocks I’m showing here, they’re not perfect, but I fix it till I’m satisfied. It didn’t meet my expectation, but it comes from my hand, and it has its own uniqueness. I simply accept the way they turn out, and I appreciate that they give me an important lesson.

Just paint away! Don’t be scared! Meet your frustration from the gap between the dreams and reality so that you have chance to fix it and grow out of it. Don’t let your fear stop your life painting from ordinary to extraordinary.